Mitigation

Mitigation is probably not a word that we here or use a great deal.  But in Colorado, particularly the past year or so, it is a word that has been used quite a bit.  Two weeks ago began the Black Forest Fire, the worst wildfire in Colorado history, resulting in the loss of over 500…

Unlucky in Love

Beginning in 1986 Terri Orbuch, an author and psychologist commenced a study in which she followed the lives of 373 married couples for over 20 years.  Nearly half of these couples had divorced over the decades (pretty typical numbers), and they shared with the researcher lessons that they had learned as a result of their…

Weddings

As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I have the opportunity to be involved in a fair amount of pre-marital counseling with couples.  I am always excited to see couples make this a priority in their relationship steps because it tells me that they are being intentional about protecting the commitment that they are making to…

How You Say It

Have you ever been told that the problem with your communication is not what you say but how you say it?  Most of us have heard that at one time or another.  Because we may not choose the best phrase or words, what we say is misunderstood and our best intentions go by the wayside. …