Once again, the holidays are approaching. For some that brings up vision of delight, while others are looking forward to escaping town and hiding out for the duration. And I certainly understand both perspectives.
But what if you and your partner were to try a few new traditions this year – some things that would shake up the status quo? Here are three suggestions.
1) It is so easy to get caught up in gift giving, as we want to please the recipient, even possibly trying to outdo ourselves from last year. Yet, what is really important, particularly as we grow older, is our presence more than our presents. Perhaps your gift could be more about something you could do together with the other person.
2) When you have family around – kids, siblings, and other relatives, it is easy to lose site of your mate. Maybe it is time to begin a tradition that involves just the two of you. That might be something as simple as driving around and seeing the lights or grabbing a cup of your favorite hot beverage and walking together through a decorated park in the evening. The possibilities are endless.
3) Giving to your community. This might be volunteering to help with a toy drive for needy children, ringing a bell for the Salvation Army, or even being available to participate in a soup kitchen. There are numerous opportunities for people to give back.
So, if the holidays have gotten a bit predictable, perhaps this is the year to shake things up a bit.