We hear today all kinds of terms that refer to the media. For example, we hear about social media, Legacy media, Fake news media, and the list goes on. Most of us have been impacted by social media and may have some strong feelings as to the strengths or flaws found in its use. You hear references to the “Legacy media” referring to media models that may not work in the 21st century.
I have a friend who writes a weekly column in the Colorado Springs newspaper. In talking with a group of about 40 younger workers, he asked how many of them read the newspaper. Not a hand went up. So, needless to say, how we receive information has changed. But what I want to talk about for a minute is the lessons we can learn from media that can benefit our marriages.
First, things are not always as they seem. While many on Facebook post pictures depicting perfection – they have the perfect families and are traveling on the perfect vacations – in reality their lives are not much different from yours. They experience the same frustrations, worries about money, how the kids are doing in school, and so on. The struggle is real – for all of us.
Second, humor is priceless. I have a friend who uses media to make a daily post of humor, calling it simply “Morning Mirth.” And that it is. I look forward to it everyday.
If we would try to just implement these two ideas into our relationships – recognizing that our struggles and frustrations with our loved ones are normal and can motivate us to grow in our significant relationships. And two, if you don’t already have it, find the ability to laugh at our all too serious lives. If we could step back and watch our lives, there is a great deal of humor to be found in them.
Realize that you are most likely pretty normal. And if you think about that too long, you just may discover that it is pretty funny.