Do You Have Egocentric Bias?

Well, we all probably have at least a little of it.  But some may have an overabundance.  Of course, you may simply be asking – what is it? It is very common for people to mistakenly view themselves as “the star of the show.”  They imagine that they are at center stage and everything that…

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Strategies to Combat Loneliness

In our last Relationships Tip Tuesday I discussed the seemingly epidemic growth of loneliness among individuals – both single and married.  As promised, I want to take today to suggest a four strategies that we can use to fight back against loneliness. Talk to strangers. You may be in line at the grocery store or…

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Are You Lonely?

If so, know that you are not the only one.  Loneliness seems to be increasing in near epidemic proportions.  In our upside down society, we have more tools to connect with the world around us than ever before, and yet, even with these advantages, so many find themselves isolated and disconnected.  One researcher discovered that…

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Just Maybe . . .

Have you ever walked in the door dreading the fact that you may need to have what could be an unpleasant conversation with your mate?  It could be some troublesome news about one of the kids, damage you did to the car, or a job-threatening conflict at work.  Whatever it is – you don’t want…

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Have You had a Brain Injury?

Well, in answer to the question, I certainly hope not.  But I was recently intrigued by a story regarding people who had brain injuries and were profoundly changed. In one case a young man was brutally beaten by muggers, which gave him a concussion – which increased his IQ to a level of being able…

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“Do as I Say . . .”

Did you ever have your parents say to you, “Do as I say, not as I do?”  Or worse yet, have you ever made that statement to your own children?  The truth of the matter is – the statement is not very brilliant (OK, I’ll just say it – “It’s dumb”), and it has a…

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Thank You Notes

If you are a fan of The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon, you have probably seen his sketch “Thank You Notes.”  In this he often pays tribute to all kinds of unsung people, places and things.  And no doubt, being mentioned on national TV is libel to be greatly appreciated. Think about when you have…

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Am I Your Friend?

Now that may seem like a strange question, as it seems that we have been together forever.  I mean, we are connected in ways that others can only be envious of.  Think about it and I’m sure that you’ll agree.  Is there anyone else whose face you gaze into as much as mine?  On average,…

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