Can You Grow Where You’re Planted?

You may be wondering what I mean by “Where you’re planted.” So, allow me to elaborate. I have encountered many people who are always “going to grow – someday.” They may be thinking – “I can’t reach my potential in this company.” Or, “This city will never be home. I am pining for my roots…

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Can You Hang Up on Anxiety?

Can You Hang Up on Anxiety? Wouldn’t it be nice if it were only that easy?  But what if there were something you could do that would help diminish anxiety?  A study that comes out of the University of Texas suggests that there just might be. The typical cell phone user pulls out and uses…

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Can You Wait?

 Author and therapist Eric Scalise writes, “We now live in the most technologically connected, but relationally disconnected, culture this country has ever experienced.” “Goodness, what did people do when they had an hour commute home from work and were unable to connect with a family member . . . unless, of course, they wanted to…

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Can Your Beliefs Increase Your Longevity?

You may be thinking, “Well, that would be nice but I doubt that I can just think my way into living longer.” However, it is reported that over 400 scientific studies have demonstrated the immense power of our beliefs. Judith Graham, from Kaiser Health writes, “When aging is seen as a negative experience, (characterized by…

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Change or ???

You have just returned from you annual physical somewhat stunned.  Your doctor has told you that your cholesterol numbers are through the roof and you have to cut down your carb intake and get on the treadmill multiple times per week.  More specifically, he said, “If you want to be around for your grandkids –…

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Childolatry

I know that this isn’t an actual word, but it is a term I came across recently that I thought was very fitting.  Elevating our children to a level of priority that was never intended and is actually unhealthy for all involved is to what “childolatry” refers. Studies consistently report that couples who do more…

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Choose

What do you choose?  We make choices everyday – should I get a big Mac or a salad? (I know the best answer – but don’t always like it)  Will I watch the movie or change the channel to a sitcom?  Do I wear the blue shirt or the maroon one?   Hundreds of choices are…

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Come Along Side

As I mentioned recently, the Colorado Springs Community has come through a horrific experience with the Black Forest Fire, in which over 500 homes were lost.  One family and their extended family lost five homes amongst them.  Another couple who had lost their home last June in the Waldo Canyon Fire, moved to Black Forest,…

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