While those sound like good kind words; an offer to assist, to provide support – individual’s reactions often don’t seem appreciative. Why? I have found myself trying to carry an armload of stuff (probably too much stuff) to the recycle bin, and my wife says, “Would you like some help?” To which I reply, “No,…
DetailsYou have a pretty good day at work, no major complications or problems. You are feeling pretty good – and then you walk in the front door. Your spouse has not had the same positive day that you have. He had a conflict with his supervisor, an argument with a co-worker, and his computer’s hard…
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Imagine that you received a promotion at work that came with a nice raise in your salary. This is a pleasant surprise and will provide money that you had not expected. So, what would you do with it? You are excited to share the news with your spouse, but when you do, a conflict ensues.…
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