Don’t You Love to Suffer?

Not Me!  You are probably thinking that is a pretty dumb question and I can understand your sentiment.  I don’t think most of us would choose to suffer, yet, in a variety of ways, we all experience suffering.  But have you ever considered that suffering can make you stronger? Two psychologists from the University of…

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Does Your Spouse Listen?

How frequently do you make a reference to something that you have told your spouse previously, only to have them respond that they don’t know what you are talking about?  If that happens too often, you may find yourself wanting to pull your hair out.  You are convinced that he or she doesn’t listen which,…

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Does Worrying Give You More Control?

It was 1989 when Jerry Jones bought the Dallas Cowboys.  He came with the determination to make big changes in order to get the team back on track with their historic winning ways.  However, some of the transitions were not timed or handled well.  Well, actually they were mangled pretty badly.  One of those mishandles…

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Does the Whining Help?

My mother is the mildest mannered and least confrontational person that I know.  So, it was interesting, and out of character, for her to recently comment to a family member, “I think if they took the word complain out of the English language, you wouldn’t have anything to say.” Let’s face it, we like to…

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Does Modeling Matter?

I recently read about a woman from New Mexico. One of her parents was a teacher and the other was a nurse. On nights and weekends they would do volunteer work. They were both committed to a life of service. The woman herself became a physician and works with the homeless community and has for…

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Does Anything Else Matter?

“I want to thank my family: my wife Regina and my son Harry. Thank you. Just seriously, thank you for being my family. I love you both, and really nothing else matters, does it?”  These were some of the final words of farewell from Dave Letterman this past week.  After 33 years as host of…

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