According to University Lecturer, Steve Taylor, PhD., when we have purpose, life becomes less complicated and less stressful. He states, “We become mono-focused, like an arrow flying towards its target, and our mind feels somehow taut and strong, with less space for negativity to seep in. We also become more resilient and able to overcome obstacles that would normally defeat us.” As famed philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche wrote, “If you have a ‘Why’ to live, you can endure almost any ‘How.”
People attach themselves to many varying “Purposes,” with differing results. For example, one person may decide their purpose is to accumulate all that they can – money, houses, cars, clothes, just lots of stuff. Others, on the other hand, may focus on learning and developing their mind. But frequently, they wind up feeling empty.
However, another interesting finding was that people who had experienced a trauma or a tumultuous event, such as cancer or depression, were more likely to gain a sense of well-being and became more involved in altruistic activities. They discovered that these individuals had a much stronger sense of purpose and veered away from focusing on themselves and what they could accumulate. Instead, they focused on helping other people overcome their troubles.
This is really not a surprise, as the writer of Hebrews declares, “And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” Hebrews 13:16
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