Is Love Scarce?

I will never forget after my first child was born how amazed I was that I could feel such love for a “little person.”  It was overwhelming.  So, when my second child was about to enter the world five years later – I was concerned.  I knew the enormity of my love for the first…

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Is Kindness Headed Toward Extinctiion?

While I certainly pray that is not the case, Jamil Zaki, a Stanford psychologist and director of its Social Neuroscience Laboratory, states, “If you wanted to design a system to break empathy, you could scarcely do better than the society we’ve created.” He believes that we are becoming more and more disengaged, citing the amount…

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Is It Worth the Effort?

Sometimes thinking is hard. We have so much that seems to demand our attention on a regular basis, that we often just allow the mundane things of the day consume our brain power – either that or one of our many screens. But there are certainly bigger issues that deserve our consideration. Things like –…

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Is it Worth Clutching?

There is a tribe in South America that has discovered a creative way to catch monkeys. Taking a large gourd with a long narrow neck, they put fruit inside it and place it in an area frequented by monkeys.  When a monkey smells the fruit, they instinctively go the gourd, look inside and, seeing the…

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Is It Too Late for the Next Chapter?

Our lives are often like chapters in a book. We all have had the “growing up at home” chapter. From there we may have had the “go to college” chapter, the “begin a career,” “get married and have kids” chapters, and so on. But frequently someone may find themselves feeling stuck in a job that…

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Is it Time to Rewire?

Oh how words have changed.  In years gone by, many people would purchase “used” cars, but not anymore.  Now we buy “previously owned” vehicles.  Buildings were remodeled but now they are re-purposed.  And the one I heard recently was spoken by the famous Dr. Ruth Westheimer, who is more frequently simply known as “Dr. Ruth.”…

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Is It Time to Clean Out the Cobwebs?

After a long day or exhausting week at work, it is so very easy to become a couch potato – binge watching on “Shark Tank” and eating more cookies and chips than is good for us. I know, because I’ve done it too. Maybe it’s time to take inventory, clean out the cobwebs in our…

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Is It Real?

It seems that we are hearing lots today about “fake news.”  As I heard Denzel Washington say, “If you don’t watch the news you are uninformed and if you watch the news you are misinformed.”  He went on to say that media is more concerned about being the first to report something than they are…

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Is it Real or Simply Tradition?

I find it interesting to read about wedding traditions in various cultures.  Some may seem to make sense – such as the practice that began in the south, where there are two wedding cakes.  The second cake is called the “groom’s cake” whose design is more masculine.  However, other practices such as trashing the wedding…

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Is it on Purpose?

It Is 3:00 AM and it is starting again . . . his snoring.  You lay in bed getting more irritated by the minute.  Part of your irritation is because you can’t sleep, which of course contributes to you being tired, which in turn contributes to your irritation.  The longer you listen to the snoring,…

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