Can You Dance on a Desk?

Can You Dance on A Desk?   Honestly, I’d be afraid I would fall off.  But that didn’t seem to stop actor Dick Van Dyke.  You may remember him from his 1960’s sitcom, The Dick Van Dyke Show (if you are as old as I am), or from such movies as Mary Poppins or Chitty…

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Can You Change Your Circumstances?

“Not again.  The car won’t start; just like yesterday.”  “The baby didn’t sleep again last night.”  “As usual, he forgot to stop by the grocery store for me on his way home.” These and other irritants can drive us crazy.  While they seem to be minor in nature, they often have the power (or so…

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Can You Be Split?

Don’t be fooled! Those kids of yours are smarter than you may think. Oh, sure – they may look innocent enough, but they are shrewd. You see, with no training, those children somehow know how to take two seemingly intelligent adults and pit them against each other. They know and are competent at splitting us…

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Can You Appreciate Loss?

There is an old Jewish saying that if you dance at a lot of weddings, you’ll cry at a lot of funerals. In essence, saying that if you experience wonderful relationships, it will be sad when they end – because they were good. I have worked with people who have lost everything from their car…

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Can We Make Transitions Smoother?

In recent research, called the Life Story Project, physicist Brian Wecht made some interesting discoveries about the transitions people experience. Whether someone exits the military, loses a job, moves to another town, discovers they have a neurological disease, or learns they have been betrayed by a best friend – they have all experienced transitions. That…

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Can Music Fuel Your Purpose?

I love music!  I enjoy listening to it, I enjoy playing it, and I even enjoy singing it.  But what in the world does that have to do with my purpose – unless of course I make my living in the music industry?  But music can feed you in ways that can make you feel…

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But Why Do Mondays Matter?

Every other week I write about something that deals with purpose and the fact that Monday’s Matter. But you may ask yourself, “Why do Monday’s matter? I mean, we just had a restful weekend and now it’s Monday and I have to go back to work. Ugh!” So, you get up Monday morning and begrudgingly…

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But Everybody Has One!

No doubt, you have heard your child proclaim, at least they are convinced, this profound truth – “Everybody has one!” They could be talking about just about anything – the newest Barbie doll, a remote-control airplane, a virtual reality console, and so on. While it may annoy you, as you are highly suspicious that not…

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